Wednesday, 8 September 2021

Love's Labour's Knots: Ties That Tether

Ties That Tether by Jane Igharo
Jove
Pp. 306

Azere is a young woman of Nigerian descent, living in Canada, who is obsessed with her cultural identity and screen romance. The novel is written in a light, fluffy style, combining the predictable plots of all her favourite films, while hammering home some ethnic issues. Azere falls for a Canadian man of Spanish descent after a one-night stand but tries to do the right thing by her family, even after he shows up at her work (advertising) as the new marketing director. Her mother has another man in mind for her – one with whom she was in love as a young teen, who took her virginity on a camp and never spoke to her again until now. This has all the makings of a modern sassy rom-com with a younger sister and cultural sensitivity thrown in.

In the opening line Azere tells us, “Culture is important. Preserving it, even more important. It’s the reason I’ve always abided by one simple dating rule.” Due to a promise to her father on his death bed, Azere will only date Nigerian men in an attempt to preserve her culture, even after immigrating to Canada. Her mother and sister are aware of this promise, which rules her life. Let’s start with the culture, because that is what the author keeps banging on about with deafening repetition. She claims, “That’s what my mother has been doing since we moved to Canada – shoving my culture down my throat, so I don’t forget where I come from.” After the eighty-fifth reference, I know the feeling.

She explains the richness of her culture and it is clear, and understandable, that she doesn’t want to relinquish it. Her mother is clearly a powerful influence, although not all her cultural strength is positive, as in when she tells Azere, “If you want to be a feminist, fine. But please be a married feminist with at least three children. In our country, a woman’s honour is her husband and her children. A career means nothing.” Her father, before he died, was a commanding force, and she also has a cultural issue of needing to look after her younger sister. Occasionally in trying to explain how special her culture is, she denigrates that of other people. Her mother sees no difference between a white man and a Hispanic one; there are clearly shades of racism at play here.

Azere is motivated by romances and romantic comedies, and all the references are upbeat and contemporary, from Beyoncé to Sex in the City: it’s pure trash but it makes a change from the tired old Jane Austen template. She is self-aware about the narrative structure, pointing out the mechanics of the story including the lead character’s sidekick – “someone bold, witty, and capable of providing comedic relief and harsh truths the lead isn’t willing to face” – or the grand gesture, “one of the most pivotal scenes in romantic movies”, which is meant to prove one’s love, earn a lover’s forgiveness, or win back a lover’s affection. All of these tropes are deployed. Part of the romantic genre is to place an obstacle in the way of the couple; miscommunication of which threatens their relationship and only love can overcome. In this there is an ‘intrigue’ that goes on far too long about Rafael’s ex-partner, but it provides the definitive hurdle: it is forced, but it fits the romantic mould.

The chapters are told from alternating viewpoints – Azere’s and Rafael’s – although the voice is the same. Everyone cares about their wardrobe, hair and make-up and has “perfectly groomed eyebrows”. Rafael describes Azere’s “spaghetti-strap knee-length dress”; it seems incongruous that the male perspective would notice this detail. Of course the woman is petite and the man big and strong: Rafael epitomises the unsavoury aspects of the masculine hero, and when he tells Azere, “You’re mine now, and there’s no way in hell I’m ever giving you up” we are meant to view it as charmingly romantic rather than disturbingly possessive.

The novel is a simple love story which follows the predictable lines of a modern romance. It has an ethnic and cultural element which gives it slightly more depth, but some of the faux-profound asides are out of step and sound a wrong note. It is shallow entertainment and if it accepted itself as such, it would be a more rewarding novel.

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