Wednesday, 17 May 2023

Debunking the Myths: Inferior


Inferior by Angela Saini
4th Estate
Pp. 237

Angela Saini contends that the so-called science which has labelled women as ‘the weaker sex’ is biased and influenced by politics, history, and social culture. Sick of people (men) telling her that women are inferior to men based on dubious scientific data, she wrote this book in an attempt, “not to lose control but to have at hand some hard facts and a history to explain them”. She challenges myths and provides explanations as to why some assumptions were made in the first place. Even though science is perceived to be neutral, women have historically been excluded from research, experiments, and theories. “Women are so grossly under-represented in modern science because, for most of history, they have been treated as intellectual inferiors and deliberately excluded from it.”

Darwin in his The Descent of Man believed that women were inferior because he couldn’t see any women doing the same intellectual things. “The evidence appeared to be all around him. Leading writers, artists and scientists were almost all men. He assumed that this inequality reflected a biological fact.” In evolutionary terms, drawing assumptions about women’s abilities from the way they happened to be treated by society at the moment is narrow-minded and dangerous.

Those ‘Men are from Mars; Women from Venus’ type ‘theories’ remain popular because anything that claims to explore sex differences is highly sought-after by media outlets looking for clickbait articles. People who counter that differences are not wholly due to genetics are often labelled sex difference deniers, in a way that would never be introduced in debates about race or colour; not since the 1950s, anyway. Sexual selection theories which were proven to be incorrect and unscientific, however, are making a popular comeback.

People are messy and come with preconceptions and prejudices. Saini argues that it is impossible not to politicise scientific data and that neuroscience has profound repercussions for how people see themselves. Humans are bound to pick up attitudes and adopt behaviours based on societal expectations rather than independent biological factors or sex chromosomes. We are also able to change and adapt as recent research into neuroplasticity confirms that the brain isn’t set in stone in childhood but is in fact mouldable throughout life.

Saini also debunks several myths, such as the one that women are better at multi-tasking than men. The paper that was published on this subject, actually never reported this claim, but the cultural and gender stereotypes were stressed in the press release. A further belief is that in previous cultures men went hunting while women gathered, making the males dominant. Research by Bion Griffin and Agnes Estioko-Griffin into the Nanadukan Agta refutes this assumption, suggesting that males did some tasks and females did others. “By and large people did whatever they wanted to do. There was no sphere of work that was exclusively male or female – except perhaps the killing of other people.  Women would stay back when groups of men went out on raids of their enemies”.

Hunting was not the primary source of nutrition anyway, so the group that hunted did not have the most crucial task. While studying the !Kung hunter-gatherers in southern Africa in 1979, Richard Borshay Lee noted that women’s gathering provided as much as two-thirds of food in the group’s diet, so gathering was arguably a more important source of calories than hunting. It is also likely that the first tools were digging sticks and containers for the food, which, being made from wood, skin or fibre, would break down and disappear over time leaving no record, unlike the hard-wearing stone tools that archaeologists have assumed were used for hunting. “This is one reason that women’s invention, and consequently women themselves, have been neglected by evolutionary researchers.” Many of these myths began because they fitted the dominant – male – narrative that positioned women as inferior.

Humans are not automatically the same as other animals, and much of our behaviour is more likely due to societal pressure than biological expression. Women are not inferior, and the science that seeks to suggest this is the case is inevitably flawed. It is time for this to be recognised and stopped. Sarah Hrdy argues, “A feminist is just someone who advocates for equal opportunities for both sexes. In other words, it’s being democratic. And we’re all feminists, or you should be ashamed not to be.” This is the science we should all follow.

Friday, 12 May 2023

Friday Five: Ibiza Beaches

I was positively surprised by Ibiza. I thought it would be full of pissed up backpackers trashing the place, but it was utterly delightful. We were out of season and our hours were more 7am -10pm than 7pm - 10am, but we found some perfect beaches to while away the time, sip on a sangria, feel the sand beneath our toes and bob about in the Mediterranean Sea. Here are some of my favourites (yes, there are more than five: mi casa; mis reglas).

1. Babylon Beach

This was the closest spot to our accommodation and we walked down to see the sunrise a couple of times. Folks did yoga here to the gentle accompaniment of the lapping waves, and, although the bar was closed (don't worry - we found another one very close by!), it made for an idyllic setting. 


2. Marina Santa Eulalia
Just round the next inland is a beautiful cove full of yachts and hotels - the lights are very pretty on the water at night. 


3. Peurto de Ibiza
Not strictly a beach - more of a marina - at Old Ibiza Town. A perfect spot to sit and sip sangria while watching the boats coming in... and going out again. 


4. Playa Niu Blau
Great sandy beach with gradual drop-off into the sea for easy swimming. A cute little inlet at the far end of the beach was where boats were moored including one with a built-in slide. 


5. Playa Cala Pada
More good swimming and a restaurant right on the beach, where we shared an excellent seafood paella.


6. S'Argamassa Beach/ Cala Martina
There are eye-wateringly expensive resorts along this strip of beach where you can rent a day bed by the hour and sit by the pool ordering drinks and snacks all day long. We peered through the fence, then sat on the beach and swam in the sea for free before ordering a bottle of AlbariƱo. There's an Ibiza to suit every budget.


7. Playa De Santa Eulalia
The main beach in town - the sand is raked every morning and the good folk of the town come to soak up the rays in the afternoon. The duathletes raced and rode up and down the promenade, and it offered spectacular opportunities for reflection in the evening. 

Wednesday, 10 May 2023

Word of the Week


Pilgarlic - defined by the OED as (arch) bald head; bald-headed man; poor creature; a man looked upon with humorous contempt or mock pity.

Often preceded by the epithet 'poor', the pil is (or was in the seventeenth century when the word was most common) pronounced the same way as peel, and so the image is clearly of a peeled garlic clove. Possibly this is due to the fact that a person who peels garlic would have hands that smell of it and so might be shunned or abandoned by others.

Another suggestion comes from Chaucer's Canterbury Tales. When the pilgrims arrived in Canterbury, the Pardoner gave a barmaid money to buy a good supper, but when he returned, he found another man enjoying her company and eating his food, making him sleep under the stairs. “And ye shall hear the tapster made the Pardoner pull/ Garlick all the long night till it was near end day.” In this context, it sounds somewhat obscene, if we imagine what part of the man's anatomy looked like peeled garlic.

Either way, it is a pretty solid insult and one it might be fun to slip into conversation and see whether you can get away with it.

Friday, 5 May 2023

Friday Five: Books Read in April

  1. Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor E. Frankl: Translated by Ilse Lasch, this is billed as 'the classic tribute to hope from the Holocaust'. Viktor E. Frankl was Professor of Neurology and Psychiatry at the University of Vienna Medical School. He was the founder of what has come to be called the Third Viennese School of Psychotherapy (after Freud’s psychoanalysis and Adler’s individual psychology) – the school of logotherapy. During World War II he spent three years at Auschwitz, Dachau, and other concentration camps. His outlook on the need to stay curious, the drive to understand one's experiences and the knowledge that these cannot be taken away no matter what, would be remarkable under any circumstances, least of all these. He suggests we embrace our past - our relationships and actions - connect with nature, and retain our humour while looking to the future. Logotherapy is the search for meaning (from the Greek logos, which translates as meaning), and it is up to us to find it. “There is no reason to pity old people. Instead, young people should envy them. It is true that the old have no opportunities, no possibilities in the future. But they have more than that. Instead of possibilities in the future, they have realities in the past – the potentialities they have actualised, the meanings they have fulfilled, the values they have realised – and nothing and nobody can ever remove these assets from the past.”
  2. Nine Perfect Strangers by Lianne Moriarty: Nine disparate people head to a wellness retreat for various reasons - the treatments are revolutionary and the clients are cautioned to accept the strangeness and trust the process. When they come to realise they are being manipulated for dubious purposes, they must work together to extricate themselves. It's fairly fast-paced, although it drags a bit towards the end, and the reader spends times getting to know stereotypes with a second (equally shallow) layer. It's exactly the sort of thing that would get picked up as a film or a TV series, and Moriarty knows it - I note that it was made into a TV series co-written by David E. Kelley and John-Henry Butterworth in 2021.
  3. Plaza de Toros de Valencia
  4. Or the Bull Kills You by Jason Webster: Chief Inspector Max CĆ”mara is “a dope-smoking, Fallas-hating, proverb-quoting, flamenco-loving, Valencia-based murder detective with the Policia Nacional, with a complicated, shattered love life, no social life to speak of, and a career lying in tatters.” The novel is set in Valencia with bullfighting and Fallas (the main festival in Valencia) as crucial elements of the story - the crime being investigated is the murder of a man found naked and lying in the centre of the bullring. Each chapter begins with a quote about bullfighting including traditional epithets such as ‘Either you kill the bull or the bull kills you’, which is the beginning of Chapter One. The novel explores the history and cultural relevance of bullfighting – “You can’t really understand the culture and history of this country without knowing something about bulls and bullfighting.” It is evocative in time and place as Webster writes with insight and affection about the various districts of the city; their characteristics and their food. 
  5. The Shadow King by Maaza Mengiste: When Italy invaded Ethiopia in 1935 the Ethiopian emperor, Haile Selassie fled to England to raise support. In his absence, a man named Minim (it translates as 'nothing') was found to resemble Selassie in appearance and so was dressed in a makeshift uniform and seated on a horse at a distance to strengthen the morale of the Ethiopian soldiers. He was guarded by a fierce warrior troop made up of women and led by Aster. One of the personal guards, Hirut, had previously been a servant of Aster and her military husband Kidane, although she has been sorely mistreated by both of them. As their stories unfold they interspersed with snatches of opera and Greek chorus (to which Selassie listens to distract himself from exile) and photographs taken by a young Venetian soldier, Ettore, himself a victim of the antisemitism growing in his own country. The 2020-Booker-Prize-nominated novel is full of characters and themes and is outrageously ambitious - at times it is difficult to separate the narrative strands, but it is a glorious achievement that the story of the forgotten women in the fight is woven strongly and tightly throughout. 
  6. HBR’s 10 Must Reads on Career Resilience by Harvard Business Review: The book contains  information about how to survive in a constantly-changing business landscape. Articles cover topics such as how to create and use networks, how to bounce back from adversity, how to play to your strengths, and how to negotiate a job change. The top tips seem to be to keep learning new things, stay curious, and to always be working, constantly updating networks, seeking feedback, self-reflecting on strength and weaknesses, or volunteering in 'side gigs'. According to the opening article, by Peter F. Drucker, we are no longer predestined to fulfill a role. “Now, most of us, even those with modest endowments, will have to learn to manage ourselves. We will have to learn to develop ourselves. We will have to place ourselves where we can make the greatest contribution. And we will have to stay mentally alert and engaged during a 50-year working life, which means knowing how and when to change the work we do.” It makes resilience sound exhausting and suggests that career and [financial] achievement are the only things that matter in life. Perhaps balance is not to be expected from the Harvard Business Review, but this has made me feel less resilient and more burnt out than ever.

Wednesday, 3 May 2023

Quote for Today: Be Nice

"If you're nice in this industry and you get on with people, it doesn't mean you're not going to fall. But when you're trying to get up, a person's going to reach out and help because of how you've been nice."

Career advice from Peter AndrƩ, quoted in the Sunday Times

Friday, 28 April 2023

Friday Five: Films on a plane

  1. Emily: Still not my favourite Bronte, although Emma Mackey is brilliant and the moors look pretty.
  2. EO: What with Banshees of Inisherin, this may be the Year of the Donkey.
  3. The Fablemans: The making of an auteur. It's clearly very autobiographical and gives away a few secrets (putting pinholes in the film; allowing light through to simulate flashes from gun-shots). The personal and insular focus, with specific parental relationships, is the same kind of film-making therapy as demonstrated in Honeyboy.  Lock-downs clearly led to lot of navel gazing and subsequent oversharing. This is great if you want to know all about your directors/ actors/ film practitioners, but a bit self-indulgent if you don't.
  4. Marcel the Shell with Shoes on: A cute and quirky animation in which a shell tries to find his family. As well as exploring the sense of identity and belonging to a community, the film also addresses the issue of on-line fandom and virtue-signalling activism. It's far more affecting than it has any right to be. 
  5. M3GAN: Science-fiction horror, which is also funny and cine-literate with self-aware references to previous works in the AI-companion-goes-feral genre.

Tuesday, 25 April 2023

Middle-Aged Fantasy: The Winter Sea

The Winter Sea by Di Morrissey
Pan Macmillan
Pp. 416

This novel is pure escapism and wish fulfilment. Cassie decides to leave her high-paid but unsatisfying legal job and husband in Sydney for a holiday on the coast. On a whim she buys a dilapidated restaurant and turns it into a roaring success with the help of the local fishing community. The spanner in the works (of course there has to be one) is in the form of a historic family incident with far-reaching repercussions. Because it's a typical holiday read there is a caring community for affirmation, an abandoned dog for company, and a handsome vet for romance. It contains a lot of stereotypes which are completely undemanding.

One of these stereotypes is the notion of Italy and the history of emigration. There are several flashbacks, which direct the reader to the old country where “Italian families are always there for each other” in a sort of Sicilian Godfather-like way. Italians love fishing and women, and they have romantic notions of both.

Characters describe things to each other in a manner that is clearly meant as exposition for the reader, and historical nuggets are dropped into the narrative with resounding clangs. The transition to being Australian is not easy; as someone worries that their English might not be good enough to pass the test they are told, “It could be in any language. If they don’t want you, they will make it impossible for you to pass.” We are reminded that Italians were put into internment camps during the war. “People are in here just because they’re Italian. Doesn’t matter what their political convictions are – Fascists, Communists, neutral. It almost makes you cry when you think of the poor buggers who left Italy to escape Fascism only to end up here.”

Cassie is a modern woman who decides to make a break, in parallel with these characters from the past. We are meant to see her as an independent woman, who is better-off without her overbearing husband, Hal and patriarchal career. This burgeoning feminism is not extended to other female characters, however – more Italian stereotypes. Moving home and setting up a new business is remarkably easy to do as Cassie buys a place in Whitby Point, by the sea (Ulladulla, NSW coast), with a more relaxed pace of life than in her previous Sydney home, which suits her interests. She extends this minimalism to her restaurant, which she decides to run with no real business plan. It is busy but idyllic and the dream of many a middle-aged idealist.

By trying to force a modern character into a tried and tested romance formula, Morrissey’s character’s credibility strains at the seams, but she has enough fans who will love it anyway and there’s no point in ruining a perfectly good fantasy with realism and detail.

Ulladulla Harbour and Foreshore