- Redback by Howard Jacobson (Black Swan) - I struggled with The Finkler Question, so thought it was worth giving Howard Jacobson another go; he is well-known for being funny and writing award-winning fiction. I suspect, however, his may be a style of humour (self-indulgent, middle-class, academic white man) that has passed me by. Think Tom Sharpe and Kingsley Amis, but more Jewish. Dense paragraphs, picaresque style, random characters, anxious first-person narrator, excessive hyperbole, roughly linear narrative peppered with tangents, flashbacks and digressions, and a barely-there storyline all appear to be hallmarks of the author's practice. The plot, such as it is, is that Karl Leon Forelock receives a double-first in Moral Decenies from Cambridge, is recruited by the CIA, and heads to Australia as a spy where he attends a lot of parties and makes sweeping generalistions about the country and women, whom he clearly doesn't understand. While he claims to have resolutely, "kept my nose out of politics", he feels entitled to comment on such matters, occasionally with amusing results. “Liberal in Australia, incidentally, means Conservative (unlike in England where it means nothing very much in particular), and is not to be confused with Labour. Which also means Conservative only not to quite the same degree.” Written in the 1980s, and set in the 1960s, the tone of this novel is very much last century.
- An American Marriage by Tayari Jones - The winner of the 2019 Women's Prize for Fiction is an extremely engaging and accessible novel, narrated by the main three protagonists. Celestial and Roy are happily and newly married when he is arrested and sentenced to twelve years in prison in Louisiana for a crime Celestial knows he didn’t commit. She finds comfort in her childhood friend, Andre, Roy’s best man at their wedding. As their feelings develop, Roy’s conviction is overturned and Celestial has big decisions to make. Celestial is an artist; Roy is a business executive – they are not the blue-collar stereotypes of the American South, but because they are African-American, their lives are destroyed by a system which is prejudiced against them. On the evening of the alleged crime (a woman was raped and claims Roy was the perpetrator and, as a black man in the wrong place at the wrong time, he is almost automatically convicted) Roy and Celestial had had a big fight. This is their last interaction before he is hauled away by the police, and the situation throws their 'perfect' marriage into question. Jones has expressed that her novel is a version of The Odyssey, with Celestial playing the role of the waiting wife, unsure how to handle the return of her man. The men are infuriating as they fight over Celestial - "You don’t have to pee on her like a dog marking your territory. Have some manners.” They may well have suffered hardship and institutionalised racism, but that does not excuse their machismo and their sexism. This was a favourite of Oprah, Obama, and books clubs all across America.
- The Windsor Knot by S.J. Bennett - This is the first in what has become a series of cosy crime novels, described as ‘Miss Marple meets The Crown’ in which the Queen solves mysteries. It was written in 2020, when the author went on a writer’s retreat during the pandemic to write something else entirely and came up with this instead. It’s highly implausible but thoroughly entertaining, as we are told, “The Queen solves mysteries. She solved the first one when she was twelve or thirteen, so the story goes. On her own. She sees things other people don’t see – often because they’re all looking at her. She knows so much about so many things. She’s got an eagle eye, a nose for bullshit and a fabulous memory. Her staff should trust her more.” At the behest of Prince Charles, the Queen hosts a ‘dine and sleep’ for Russian dancers, composers, and selected glitterati. When a pianist is found strangled the next day, hanged by the cord of his dressing gown in a wardrobe at Windsor Castle, the optics aren’t good. Initially it appears that it may have been a case of autoeroticism gone wrong, although the aides are hesitant to alert the Queen to this fact. She, meanwhile, tells Prince Philip that she is unshockable because “I’ve lived through a world war, that Ferguson girl and you in the Navy.” The MI5 suspect political involvement, but the Queen disagrees and sets out to solve the crime herself. Which, of course, she does.
- Murder in Paradise by Ann Cleeves - Set on Kinness, an island off the coast of Scotland (bleak and misty with 'traditional values' and sheep), this is billed as a George and Molly Palmer-Jones mystery, but George is on his own, and Molly is back at home. George works with Sarah instead, a new bride who has just got married to Jim and returned to the island (where he grew up) for celebrations. It is difficult for her to adjust as everyone has secret alliances and their own ways of being. There is very little bird-watching (they ring some swans and shoot some geese) and George is cross and irritable with everyone and everything including himself and his feelings about retirement. “How pagan they are still, he thought… They pretend to be Christian, but when they’ve had a few drinks, they still behave like loutish Norsemen.” George is determined to solve the crime – the death of a girl who is believed to have fallen to her death – and even this annoys him. “He felt the weight of responsibility. It was as if the police had given up, and had handed over the task of finding the murderer to him.” The murder seems incidental to the narrative, which is more about adaptability. There is an entire red herring thread about child abuse, but mostly the islanders are afraid of change and the pervasive question is whether they can preserve the island as it is, or does that make it a museum?
- Cassandra Speaks: When Women Are the Storytellers, the Human Story Changes by Deborah Lesser - Inspired by a woman at a conference who was exploring 'the power of myth in modern culture' (basically, my university dissertation), the author decides to look at how female stories are interpreted, such as those of Eve, Pandora, Athena. It has a very Western focus. Her tone is irritating - telling people what to do and treating the audience as if they haven’t considered this before she brought it to our attention. I am not surprised to learn she delivers TED talks; her approach is didactic, individual, and lecturing. She comments,“Everything I knew about European history had to do with wars and kings, trade routes and power plays between religions, royalty and tyrants. Why did we only know and care about those aspects of being human?” Speak for yourself! Maybe stop blaming education from fifty years ago and look into things yourself, like those of us who are interested already have. It may appeal to young people (as the alarming pink jacket suggests) as their first foray into this sphere, but there is nothing in here that I haven't read (in better formats) before.
Friday, 2 August 2024
Friday Five: Books Read in July
Tuesday, 16 January 2024
Entry-Level Feminism by the Book: A Month of Sundays
Adele, who has
organised it (and everything else), suggests they each chose a book, “that will
tell us all something significant about you. Be prepared to be honest about why
you have chosen it and why it matters to you. This makes it more than just a
suggested read, it is an invitation from each one of us to the others to get to
know each other better.” They will then discuss the book, but of course, “it’s
true that we all bring something of ourselves to what we read” so they learn
more about each other as the book progresses.
They are all
reaching retirement age so they have the luxury of time, and they can indulge
in self-reflection and learn more about female friendship and feminism, which
they might not have thought was right for them when they first encountered its
concepts. In that regard, it is frustrating to read, like listening to a group
of grandmothers explaining how it was not like that in their day.
Judy runs a
knitting shop but feels overwhelmed with the business; Ros comes with a dog
called Clooney and a dead husband, James, who died jumping off a bus and she
has yet to come to terms with it. She also has Parkinson’s disease, about which
she is in denial. Lastly Simone does yoga and seems to have it all together,
until she discovers she has a long-lost sister who was the result of a hitherto
unknown relationship of her father.
Other reviewers
have been coy about mentioning the books discussed in case it ruins the
suspense of the story. It doesn’t. They are Tirra
Lirra by the River by Jessica Anderson, Sacred
Country by Rose Tremain, Truth and
Beauty by Ann Patchett, and Unless
by Carol Shields. These are all celebrated and acclaimed novelists. They are
also all white, Western and middle class. That’s definitely the territory in which
we find ourselves. For all that the characters have their dramas and personal
experiences, there is little variety or plot in this novel. They plod on and
hopefully find friendship, learning better late than never that women can
support each other and they don’t have to fit into society’s expectations. Their
reference points are Helen Reddy’s I Am
Woman and Julia Gillard’s misogyny speech.
Tuesday, 25 July 2023
You Keep It All In: A Clear Conscience
The writing style
is almost breathless, and grammar seems optional as the prose gathers pace
along with the narrative. The author constantly switches point of view so it
appears to be third-person omniscient but we are always in the mind of the subject,
blurring the lines between reality and perception. Helen’s friend Emily employs
Cath as a cleaner; Cath’s brother Damien is the murder victim of a case
investigated by Bailey, Helen’s partner; Damien was killed after a night at the
pub where Joe, Cath’s abusive husband works. There are no easy answers or
definitive source of truth; law and justice are explicitly not the same thing.
Everyone lies to a certain extent,
and no one tells the whole truth to anyone, even themselves. “We are all at
cross purposes, he thought, every one of us a little mad, each of us with a
piece of puzzle in our hands, while the truth floats up there like that big,
black raincloud.” In an attempt to feel better about one’s self-image,
characters believe their own narrative and don’t examine their motives too
closely. Helen is obsessed with home decorating, Cath smells of bleach, Emily dismisses
Cath for suspected theft of perfume – the interior renovation metaphor alludes
to the patina of gloss that covers cracks but doesn’t mend them. Perfume serves
a similar masking purpose. “What a terrible gift was perfume, always given by a
man to make you wear it and please him, while you stank of blackmail.”
Written
in 1994, the novel has an end-of-the-century feminism feel as the author
questions women’s roles and their need to validate themselves in society. Helen
claims to be determinedly independent and happily childfree. “I’d hate to be a megalomaniac
wife and mother. Mothers run a closed book. They shut the world out, close off anything
inconvenient, as if being mum in charge of a family is so self-satisfying, so
sanctifying, they never need have a conscience about anything else.” And yet,
she is yearning for something intangible. “It was useless pretending she was
not influenced by what she saw and read; she was not immune to the contagion of
the romantic or the desire for security purveyed by mothers and magazines…but
she did not quite know how to not want it either, or how to close her ears to
the blandishments of marriage propaganda.”
Wednesday, 17 May 2023
Debunking the Myths: Inferior
Darwin in his The Descent of Man believed that women were
inferior because he couldn’t see any women doing the same intellectual things.
“The evidence appeared to be all around him. Leading writers, artists and
scientists were almost all men. He assumed that this inequality reflected a biological
fact.” In evolutionary terms, drawing assumptions about women’s abilities from
the way they happened to be treated by society at the moment is narrow-minded
and dangerous.
Those ‘Men are from Mars; Women from Venus’ type ‘theories’ remain
popular because anything that claims to explore sex differences is highly
sought-after by media outlets looking for clickbait articles. People who counter
that differences are not wholly due to genetics are often labelled sex
difference deniers, in a way that would never be introduced in debates about race
or colour; not since the 1950s, anyway. Sexual selection theories which were
proven to be incorrect and unscientific, however, are making a popular
comeback.
People are messy and come with preconceptions and prejudices. Saini
argues that it is impossible not to politicise scientific data and that neuroscience
has profound repercussions for how people see themselves. Humans are bound to
pick up attitudes and adopt behaviours based on societal expectations rather
than independent biological factors or sex chromosomes. We are also able to
change and adapt as recent research into neuroplasticity confirms that the
brain isn’t set in stone in childhood but is in fact mouldable throughout life.
Saini also debunks several myths, such as the one that women are better
at multi-tasking than men. The paper that was published on this subject,
actually never reported this claim, but the cultural and gender stereotypes
were stressed in the press release. A further belief is that in previous
cultures men went hunting while women gathered, making the males dominant.
Research by Bion Griffin and Agnes Estioko-Griffin into the Nanadukan Agta
refutes this assumption, suggesting that males did some tasks and females did
others. “By and large people did whatever they wanted to do. There was no
sphere of work that was exclusively male or female – except perhaps the killing
of other people. Women would stay back
when groups of men went out on raids of their enemies”.
Hunting was not the primary source of nutrition anyway, so the group
that hunted did not have the most crucial task. While studying the !Kung
hunter-gatherers in southern Africa in 1979, Richard Borshay Lee noted that women’s
gathering provided as much as two-thirds of food in the group’s diet, so gathering
was arguably a more important source of calories than hunting. It is also
likely that the first tools were digging sticks and containers for the food, which,
being made from wood, skin or fibre, would break down and disappear over time
leaving no record, unlike the hard-wearing
stone tools that archaeologists have assumed were used for hunting. “This is
one reason that women’s invention, and consequently women themselves, have been
neglected by evolutionary researchers.” Many of these myths began
because they fitted the dominant – male – narrative that positioned women as
inferior.
Humans are not automatically the same as other animals, and much of our
behaviour is more likely due to societal pressure than biological expression. Women
are not inferior, and the science that seeks to suggest this is the case is
inevitably flawed. It is time for this to be recognised and stopped. Sarah Hrdy
argues, “A feminist is just someone who advocates for equal opportunities for
both sexes. In other words, it’s being democratic. And we’re all feminists, or
you should be ashamed not to be.” This is the science we should all follow.
Wednesday, 14 September 2022
Ordering Chaos: The Mercies
At the outset, there are stories of the women working together at
domestic chores, after their men have been lost at sea; they undertake soothing
rituals of the home (bread making and sewing), but they must also put to sea to
fish, and butcher the meat – things the menfolk did but they are no longer here.
The action of rowing becomes a metaphor for cooperation which, despite personal
differences, is essential for survival. “They pull together as men rowing a
boat. It is a closeness born of necessity: they need each other more than ever,
especially as food begins to scarcen.” Maren observes that there is a rhythm
and a natural order to their society, which we know will be overturned, because
that is the chaos that makes drama.
Women are expected to fit a mould, and they cause discomfort to others
when they break out of it. Men from the mainland come to bury the bodies when
the earth has thawed enough to dig. They wish to wish to control women; they dislike
seeing women doing manual labour such as fishing and butchering, and they
disapprove of them wearing practical clothing (trousers) to do so.
Absalom Cornet is appointed by Lensmann Cunningham to visit the island,
with his new wife, Ursa, and hunt out any instances of witchcraft. The sense of
unease throughout the novel is palpable, and the reader may be horrified at the
ending but not surprised. Hargrave is portentous in her foreshadowing from
Maren’s dreams of dead whales to more explicit warnings that the arrival of
men, and Absalom Cornet in particular, will have dire consequences. “They
imagine he will be like their minister, have as little impact as snow falling
into the sea. They imagine that their lives will go on, and that the worst is
behind them. They imagine all sorts of silly, inconsequential things, and every
bit of it is wrong.”
Some of the women have relied upon ritual to deal with grief and help
them to feel safe; in some cases using runes and leaving food out for trolls. Maren
is comforted by the Sámi ceremonies of Diina, her sister-in-law. “She had
believed it, because in those months she was grasping for something, anything,
to order the chaos that the storm had set among them.” Many of the women submit
to soothing domestic routines, rather than praying in the church to a stern
deity. Ursa has been brought up with housekeepers and no idea how to provide
for herself; when Maren teaches her how to bake bread, the description is
sacramental.
The men also need to find order in the chaos, so they choose to blame witchcraft.
The clear rift between the meeting house and the kirke women is embodied
between Kirsten and Toril. Kirsten is stronger, but Toril speaks the right words
to the church men and there is nothing anyone can do against the charge of witchcraft.
The things by which they accuse the women of witchcraft are very mundane. “It
reads like a list of women’s gossip, from arguments over fish-drying racks to
saying the Lord’s Prayer backwards.” The women collude with the practice and
find that once accusations of witchcraft begin, they are as impossible to stop
as the weather. “Oh, God have mercy on us. We have begun it, and cannot end it.”
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| Steilneset Memorial in Vardo, Norway, commemorating the trial and execution in 1621 of 91 people (77 women and 14 men) for witchcraft |
Tuesday, 12 October 2021
How Beauteous Mankind Is!: Circe
The retelling of classical stories and myths from the female perspective
is currently all the rage (The Penelopiad
by Margaret Atwood; The Silence of the
Girls by Pat Barker; A Thousand Ships
by Natalie Haynes) and Madeline Miller is part of this welcome revolution. Here
she tells the story of Circe, a semi-goddess often described as a witch, best
known for her role in Homer’s Odyssey,
where she detained Odysseus and his men, turning some of them into swine.
Miller relates this tale in the first person, providing a back-story and
reasons for Circe’s behaviour, like the unravelling of a fairy-tale.
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| Circe (1911) by Beatrice Offor |
Circe is the daughter of Helios, Titan god of the sun and, from
childhood, she is ridiculed for not shining brightly enough in his eyes. Her name
means Hawk because of “my yellow eyes, and the strange, thin sound of my crying”.
The gods think her voice is weedy and screechy, but it transpires it is simply like
that of a mortal. She is fascinated by humans and shares an affinity for them
with Prometheus, who shaped man out of mud. As a child, Circe asks Prometheus what
a mortal was like and he tells her, “There is no single answer. They are each
different. The only thing they share is death.” She questions how they bear the
burden of this knowledge and he replies, “As best they can”.
Bored with the smooth symmetry of the gods, Circe loves the diversity of
humans. She is fascinated by mortals, and her words are like those of Miranda
in Shakespeare’s Tempest or reminiscent
of Doctor Who, who admires mortals
but is not one. She has no god-like powers, although she does have knowledge of
herbs and potions; medicine to be used for healing and harm, the Greek word for
which is pharmakis, ‘a preparer of
drugs, a poisoner, a sorcerer’, from which we derive the word pharmacy, and
which wisdom led her to be called ‘witch’.
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| The Wine of Circe (1900) by Edward Burne Jones |
The gods also “love their monsters” because it gives them something to
threaten mortals with, and something for heroes to challenge. They look down
upon mortals and heroes, and enjoy toying with them – the Trojan War and its
consequences are all a result of their petty squabbles – and they like to see
what the mortals will do next when put into impossible situations. “Gods love
novelty… They are curious as cats.” These gods are equally childlike and cruel,
with a unique morality. “They do not care if you are good. They barely care if
you are wicked. The only thing that makes them listen is power… They take what
they want and in return they give you only your own shackles.” They also punish
those who help mortals; they want the mortals to be afraid because they give
better offerings.
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| Circe (1889) by Wright Barker |
The most important thing to these gods is their reputation. They are
similar to the Knights of King Arthur, who vied for quests to prove their
honour, but these gods want only fame – they don’t care how they come by it. Most
mortals also want fame above anything: when Odysseus travels to the underworld
to consult Tiresias, the blind seer, Achilles tells him it is better to live a
quiet life than die a hero’s death. He disagrees. When Telemachus turns down
Athena’s offer of adventure, she is bewildered. “There will be no songs made of
you. No stories. Do you understand? You will live a life of obscurity. You will
be without a name in history. You will be no one.”
Miller uses the style of Homeric language and epithets about Helios, “My
father’s chariot slipped into the sea and began to douse itself in the waves” but
she also has an individual style as she reinterprets classic myth from a modern
angle and damns the ostensible glory of the gods.
After displeasing her father, Circe is exiled to an island, Aiaia, which
she cannot leave, but she can receive visitors (including Hermes, Jason and
Medea, Daedalus, and, of course, Odysseus). She becomes a magnet for reckless
and randy sailors (these are the ones she turns to swine as they try to rape
her) and her island a place for disgruntled fathers to send their
disobedient daughters, like some mythical convent. She casts her feminist
viewpoint on her treatment. “Brides, nymphs were called, but that is not really
how the world saw us. We were an endless feast laid out upon a table, beautiful
and renewing. And so very bad at getting away.”
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| The Sorceress (1911) by John William Waterhouse |
Circe’s story is one that has only previously been told through the eyes
of others and the tangential effects she has on their narrative. Miller
presents us with another side to wily Odysseus, “The spiral shell. Always
another curve out of sight.” She also shows us a fresh perspective on Penelope
when Odysseus’ wife and son visit Circe on Aiaia, and the use of the word ‘weaving’
to describe spells and craft unites the women through something other than the
lover and mother trope.
Tuesday, 22 June 2021
Cliched Romantic Claptrap: A Matter of Grave Concern
One of the
grave robbers in The London Supply Company, Max Wilder, is actually a nobleman
in disguise, trying to find out what happened to his step-sister who has
disappeared and he fears she has been murdered. This scenario is interesting,
but it all goes rapidly downhill when Abby goes to the home of the leader of
the gang, Big Jack, to recover the money they took from her. She is captured
and she falls in love with Max, who supposedly protects her, but also initiates
her sexually while holding her captive; it’s all very distasteful and the
sexual fantasy element seems misguided.
Abby dreams of
being a surgeon, although women are forbidden from practicing medicine. Supposedly
she has some feminist leanings, but she still likes to be dominated and falls
for her captor. She refers often to the plight of women in the late Regency
period, “Because she refused to adopt the role society tried to press upon her,
she had always fought to fit in, even at the college. Lecturers and students
alike couldn’t understand why she couldn’t be content to sit in the corner and
darn socks.” Women have few options, apart from to go to the alms-houses, which
“provided such a cruel and meagre existence that no one wanted to end up there”,
and of course, there is prostitution.
There are offerings
of historical information which do not blend with the plot, and land with a
clang, such as the mention of “Sir Robert Peel’s new police force” or “the
notorious gentleman’s guide to the current brothels and prostitutes in London – Harris’s List of Covent Garden Ladies.”
It is as though Novak wants to educate as well as titivate, and she is far from
subtle with the introduction of knowledge, but she also writes of England for
an American market, as evidenced by her slips of language. Although Max is a
high class noble (Lucien
Cavendish, the Duke of Rowenberry), he tells Abby to, ‘Quit being so
smug”, which is not an English expression of any era.
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| Interior with a Sleeping Man and a Woman Darning Socks by Wybrand Hendricks |
Abby admits her
love for Max only to discover he is betrothed to another woman through an old
alliance between families; of course it wouldn’t do for him to have any romantic
attachment to anyone but her. Although she is now pregnant with his child (and
we have been told about the consequences of unwed motherhood), she does the
‘decent thing’ by not telling him. “If she loved him, she would support him in
what would make him the happiest, and she knew what that was.” This is patently
ridiculous and a romance novel trope; one of many. There are long scenes of
what Max and Abby feel for each other, but the actual plot hurries towards the
end. In the last few chapters there are stabbings, abduction, hangings, and circumnavigations
of the globe which appear to take weeks rather than months.
Wednesday, 2 June 2021
Women's Health Matters: Pain and Prejudice
In general women live longer than men, but they are in
more pain. They are not taught to know their bodies or talk about their
ailments; they are meant to nurture and support others before themselves. Women
aren’t accustomed to discussing ‘female ailments’ – menstruation, menopause and
sexual pain are still relatively taboo topics. Many women can’t identify their reproductive
organs on a diagram and are certainly not meant to talk about them, as it is
considered shameful. An influential study by Melissa Parker on Australian girls
found that 93% of them experienced some period pain. About 20% experience
severe pain, 24% say their period interferes with four out of nine life
activities, and 26% miss school because of pain. “So a quarter of girls are
missing school because of pain, and nobody thinks it’s a problem?”
When women demand attention, over their health or issues of equality, they are often labelled as hysterical, and “As an insult, ‘hysterical is still disarmingly effective.” Yet, when men present with the exact same symptoms, it is called shellshock or PTSD. Traditionally medicine was a male profession, and women are often not believed about their own health. In the late nineteenth and early twentieth century, “medicine became an elite profession and took over from religious institutions as the primary enforcers of the social roles of women.”
Because the default case study for all ailments is
male, “We assume that the ways in which women are different from men must be
the ways in which women are inferior or broken or diseased when in fact it
might be that women are just different.” Symptoms of heart attacks are
different in women and often misdiagnosed. A World Health Organisation report
explains, “It has traditionally been thought of as a man’s disease which has
led to deadly consequences for women – in 2004, 7.4 million women over 60 years
of age died of cardiovascular disease compared with 6.3 million men.” Stress is
a factor in heart disease, but women are often dismissed as suffering from
nothing but anxiety when men who present with the same symptoms are diagnosed
with heart disease.
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| Before 1993 there was no legal requirement to include women in clinical trials |
Many clinical tests only use men in their trials,
which can prove fatal to women. In 1993, the US Food and Drug Administration
and the National Institutes of Health mandated the inclusion of women in
clinical trials. Before then, trials were routinely carried out on men only,
including: a twenty-year longitudinal study (began in 1958) to explore whether
taking an aspirin every day could reduce the risk of heart disease (conducted
in 22,071 men and no women); a 1982 trial looking at whether dietary change and
exercise could help prevent heart disease (conducted in 13,000 men and no
women), and even a trial in the 1960s to investigate whether supplementation
with oestrogen was an effective preventive treatment for heart disease
(conducted in 8341 men, and no women).
Women generally experience more chronic pain than men –
they suffer pains that cannot be seen, so they are often discounted, and pelvic
pain is “also beset by stigmas and taboos that make it difficult for women to
talk about their sex organs or anything related to them.” When women are believed about experiencing pain,
they are often thought to be exaggerating. “Even female doctors, after training
and working in the heavily masculinised medical culture, can view this language
as confronting and histrionic.”
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| Women suffer more chronic pain than men |
There are several overlapping pain conditions and women
who suffer from one are likely to also suffer from others. These include endometriosis;
vulvodynia; fibromyalgia; chronic fatigue syndrome/ myalgic encephalomyelitis;
interstitial cystitis/ painful bladder syndrome; temporomandibular joint
disorders; irritable bowel syndrome; chronic tension-type headache; chronic
migraine and chronic low back pain. “Chronic pain conditions aren’t conditions
that kill us but they radically alter our opportunities to reach our full
potential in life… Pain doesn’t actually kill people – it keeps women in the
home and out of work, which has no effect upon the power structures of society,
providing no incentive for action.”
Doctors don’t really want to see patients who are
difficult to diagnose and harder to fix as it looks bad for their figures and
solved statistics: they even call them ‘heart-sink patients’. Women are aware
of this stigma, and when they are told they have medically unexplained
symptoms, anxiety, depression or are disbelieved, they can move from doctor to
doctor in order to find a diagnosis or treatment relief. “In an exasperating
development, ‘doctor-shopping’ has come to be seen as an indicator that pain is
made up, rather than a result of pain doctors won’t believe.”
Wednesday, 13 January 2021
You'll do girl, you'll do: Finding Baba Yaga
Teenaged Natasha lives with her
parents, and knows she must get away from them and their constant fighting. Ever
since her father has discovered religion, it has become worse as he monitors
her language and behaviour. She runs away into the forest but, although the
woods, stones and water are a recurring fairy tale image or reference, this is
not the one familiar from storybooks and the settings are slightly skewed; “The forest opens like a yawn,/ as if it
knew I was coming,/ has seen me before,/ can’t be bothered to resist.” We
recognise the motifs of the lost child in the woods, but Yolen suggests there
is more to the story if we look, listen, and abandon our preconceptions. At the
end of Chapter Two, The Runaway, in This Is Not a Fairy Tale she writes, “Expect no princes./ Expect no magic rings./
Expect no glass slippers./ Expect no fairy godmothers. / Expect no singing
dwarfs. / Expect no talking dragons. / Expect only/ seven deadlies delivered:/ exhaustion,/
boredom,/ regret,/ hunger,/ anger,/ danger,/ death./ All part of God’s taketh
away.”
And then she encounters Baba
Yaga, with all of her traditional traits. She lives in a house which turns
about on its chicken legs: “It is like
living on a house boat:/ the swell of the waves, the turn of the tides,/ a
moment of emotion, with the ‘e’ removed.” She is a tough old woman with an
iron nose, and the contemporary references to strong women are apparent; “She’s tougher than Clinton or Thatcher ever
were.” This clash of realism and magical imagery continues as she explains
how Baba Yaga flies through the sky in her mortar, guided by her pestle, but no
one see her “unless you count bad dreams”. She flies “across tundra, taiga, major highways,/ avoiding traffic jams,
roundabouts,/ only bothering the occasional helicopter/ or low-flying private
planes.”
Natasha learns to tell her story,
and that “A story is, not always means.”
It may be grim – “I think I know now/
there are no happy evers./ Only happy moments.” – but she grows as a
narrator, examining the meanings of words and exploring postmodernism through
form and structure, drawing attention to the artifice of the narrative. “I am becoming a poet./ I am thinking in
metaphors./ I am walking through a poem.”
Monday, 23 November 2020
Craft is a Feminist Issue: The British Textile Biennial
"Cross-stitch is the oldest form of embroidery and can be found all over the world. Many folk museums show examples of clothing decorated with cross-stitch, especially from continental Europe, Asia, and Eastern and Central Europe."
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| Heartfelt and You See Food, I See Numbers by Caren Garfen |
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| Detail from Heartfelt |
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| Identity Crisis and That's How the Cookie Crumbles by Caren Garfen |
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| Detail from That's How the Cookie Crumbles |
"There's a debate about art vs craft that has been going on for centuries, and it's intrinsically connected to the concept of a patriarchally dominant social paradigm. It goes something like this: 'Men are great and they make art and are powerful and strong, whereas women are meek and should sit at home crafting things like embroidered homewares.'"It'is all a bit ridiculous, but that storyline, which I have somewhat paraphrased, has led to the idea that only certain media (painting and sculpture for example) should be labelled as art, and that crafts like cross stitch cannot achieve such spiritually lofty goals. Suffice to say, this is not the case. Just believe me when I say that any medium can be used for art as it's the creative expression that makes the difference."
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| Images by Crapestry |
"Contemporary commercial tapestries might be argued to be the exemplification of superficial chintz; spectacularly vapid, vividly dull, unquestioningly conformist, gaudily bourgeois, and at the same time unyieldingly time-consuming. The subject matter is often romanticised, uncritical and both exploits and reinforces established stereotypes. The outcome? Standardised 'precious things' cherished by the softly smiling, callous fingered Grandmas of the world, harmless old dears who quietly revel in the creation of 'cheeky terrier' and 'dewy chrysanthemum' cushions or 'God bless this house' picture frames. No mention of mortality, no depiction of suffering, nothing surprising, nothing funny."Crapestry capitalises on cross-stitch orthodoxies, exploiting their established themes. Some crapestries are funny, some are sad, and some may cause offence; but that's fine. Even the desperately sad crapestries make many people laugh, whether by a curious schadenfreude or simply because they are unaccustomed to encountering troubling subjects addressed through the medium of tapestry; its incongruous."
"The gradual crackling of the Iron Wall which began in the 1980s brought refreshing gusts of the westerly wind not only to adults. The growing thirst for superior ideals and freedom of speech was accompanied by an inexorable hunger for material novelties and commodities. It was not consumerism in today's sense when we are spoiled by both the excessive supply and the possibility to buy almost anything our eyes and heart desire. Back then we, the Soviet Generation X, were hungry indeed. It was a time when we took turns chewing the same piece of bubble gum with our classmate, biting into the red wrap of basically the only available option, the Lithuanian-made Paršiukas Čiukas (Chook the Piggy) gum, to tint it red, while the Estonian Kalev gum was extremely hard to come by. Then the corroded iron wall began to erode rapidly and real Western wonders entered the world of deficit.
"Among the first arrivals were the Donald Bubble Gum, valued not only for their main pre-coloured chewable content but also the inlays with adventure comic strips. We were ready to sacrifice for these wonders as much as the Native Americans or the Aborigines had been willing to exchange the last pelt for European glass beads and add a bonus gold nugget to that. In other words, giving away all the money our parents gave us for the summer holidays for a carton of Donald Bubble Gum was seen as a fair deal.
Just as the dollar assumed a very important role among the adults, bubble gum inlays did the same in the parallel children's world. It was not a vain childish whim, as these pieces of paper were not less valuable than the adults' paper bills. It was the children's hard currency which could be traded, exchanged for other commodities, gambled away, and, most importantly, used to buy status, peers' respect, friendship and popularity.
"The other Donald, who seems to surpass Donald Duck and his fellows in popularity and influence, brings out these real childhood memories, which may look like cartoons to those who were born in the post-Soviet years or who have never lived this side of the Iron Wall. The two Donalds have some traits in common. Both of them attract the masses, generate a huge income, and are excellent at blowing bubbles. Yet there is also a fundamental difference - while Donald Duck has made walls fall, the other Donald is busy building them."
"I am strongly influenced by the world of media. I work on the slip of meanings relating to highly iconic images, using diverse media and techniques. I am passionate about the art of embroidery using it to produce several cycles of works of great visual impact and subtle conceptual charm."









































